Monday, January 25, 2010

What girls ought to know...

This is a re-post from an entry in my friend's blog (with a few alterations made by yours truly to make it more suitable to my views)

We guys don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and talk to him without even introducing us, it annoys us. It also doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for 10 minutes without even acknowledging that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls or texts you, but at 2a.m. in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important that it can't wait til the morning.

When we tell you you look nice/beautiful/stunning/pretty we really mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong and deny it; we'll just stop trying to convince you.

One of the most attractive thing about a girl is confidence.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open.

Take advantage of the mood we're in.

Let us pay for you. Don't feel "bad" or "guilty". We want to. It's expected of us. Just smile and say "Thank You".

You don't have to get all dressed up when you're going out. We like girls for who they are and not what they are. We think a girl looks the most beautiful in casual wear and shorts, not high heels and dolled up.

Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your book of life.

Don't talk about how hot Hollywood/Korean/Japanese actors are with us. It's boring and we don't really care. You have girlfriends for that.

If you're not treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change. Chances are, he most probably won't. Find yourself a better guy who truly cares for you, treats you with respect and honours your values.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes, make you smile when you are at your lowest; someone who will love you no matter how bad you make him feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing and look you in the eyes and say "I love you" and really mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance.

Guys repost this if you agree.

Girls repost this if you think its cute.


P.S. I know this doesn't sound at all like something I would type. Just thought it was quite thoughtful in a way. 1st time for everything huh? ;)




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